Why are We So Tired?

This took me a while to wrap my head around, but after the May 15th Pro-D day I was hearing that many of my colleagues have been feeling like they are exhausted, more so that usual. I’ve been thinking the same thing and writing it off, as many have, as we have been switching to different instructional practices, stress and anxiety due to Covid-19, self-isolating, lonely, out of routine and worrying about friends and family.

Turns out there are other things that are contributing to our feelings of exhaustion and surprisingly they are related to exactly what we have been using to keep from feeling so far apart. While Zoom has been overwhelmingly popular during this time of social distancing, our school district’s use of Teams is certainly applicable to this articles. These articles explore the effects that virtual meetings, conferences and group chats have on our well-being.

Photo by Getty Images Plus.

Christina Cauterucci begins her article with the positives that I’m sure that well all felt in the beginning of being able to access technologies that were supposed to bring us together. I know that it did me good to see the faces of friends, family and colleagues through social media apps. She builds to something that I wonder if many of us are feeling now. As these meetings became more commonplace and regularly began replacing the face-to-face contact that we would expect, we realize how much they don’t actually replace speaking to the person in real life. What she terms “video chat fatigue” sets in and all the things that education professionals have been learning about social-emotional learning, such as the importance of eye-contact and active listening skills, are impossible to mimic through a web cam and in chat rooms. This has an effect on our mental state, especially considering how empathetic we are to our students and want to communicate our encouragement and understanding to them.

From Getty Images

An article in Forbes by Yola Robert considers further reasons of the effects of virtual meetings and the exhaustion they lead to. Along with the communication disconnect that we usually rely on for positive human interactions, she also raises the stresses that technical glitches and vanity bring to being on-line. All of her points contribute to another issue that I’m hearing far too often from colleagues and that is the matter of work/life balance. As we are finding ourselves increasingly in a virtual world, the idea of it being on 24/7 is having its own impact on us. Our care and compassion for others compels us to answer that email at 9pm, check our class Team after our own children are asleep and strive to provide individual feedback as soon as we can.

All of these considerations are important to keep in mind as we continue to move through this phase of remote learning. They may even become more important as June brings some combination of virtual and in-class learning for teachers. There is also the potential that some sort of change from the regular school expectations of attendance may follow us into September and beyond. Being able to discuss these things and our own challenges facing the situation, ever changing as it may be, should bring an awareness of another layer of difficulties that may otherwise be ignored. I would encourage colleagues and students to work to strike a work/life balance and take steps to combat Covid-Fatigue. Our District’s Continuity of Learning site offers webinars for our staff to support mental and digital wellness and I strongly recommend checking them out. This vein of thinking would suggest that I pursue resources that would support teen-aged students and their families in their wellness during this time. Perhaps sharing suggestions in the comments would help further the conversation.

Thank you, take care and be safe!

Letting Emotion Get in the Way of Judgement

Well, it happened this weekend. In this period of heightened stress and anxiousness, I almost fell into the same vitriolic emotions that I’ve been guarding against. Upon hearing that outdoor areas were being opened as long as social distancing was observed, pictures started flooding in from concerned citizens about those that were not taking social distancing seriously. The CBC published stories worried about people ignoring the rules and threatening to close outdoor areas again or start levying fines.

And I felt it… a visceral, emotional response toward those that would willfully ignore the rules set out by Dr. Bonnie Henry and public health guidelines. Anger toward those that would put others in harm’s way so that they could get their outdoor time in at our beaches and parks. The idea that in an instant of gorgeous weekend weather, our efforts to flatten the curve would be erased. I began thinking about how I could express this feeling, communicate the frustration that I had with those people. Tell them how selfish they were being and, for the greater good, must continue to observe the rules to that we can beat this virus without risking anyone else’s health.

Upon witnessing this rant percolating in me and before I could embarrass myself, my kindhearted wife, ever the educator, asked a question that teacher-librarians really shouldn’t be reminding of, “how many pictures have you seen and are they different in any way?”

Humbled, I took pause to go back and look at the pictures that had moments ago raised my ire, like these images of Kits Beach:

The perspective of photos that showed a crowd were always at ground level. It did not take long for responses of others on social media to get heated and out of hand. I am certainly glad I listened to my wife, as this came through Twitter not long after our conversation:

The series of photos from the Twitter thread by Space2Place gave further examples of how perspective of crowding changes when seen from above.

Which prompted me to do a bit of further research into forced perspective and the issues of lens compression. As interesting as that was, this CTV article was more directly to the point. That same photo of Kits Beach, the one that made it appear so crowded, had an entirely different view from the air.

From CTV News: https://bc.ctvnews.ca/just-how-crowded-are-the-beaches-pictures-highlight-how-perspectives-can-mislead-1.4935162

 

Needless to say, my initial anger subsided and was replaced by embarrassment. I fell victim by the same hooks that are used to get people to react, either to click, comment or otherwise engage with information seeking to prey on an emotional response, without taking pause and examining the situation from a wider perspective (yes, punny, I know).

That is not to say that there were no infractions of social distancing this past weekend, I’m sure there were, just as I’m now sure that it may not have been to the extent that I initially assumed. This exercise served as a good reminder to take effort and evaluate situations and information before reacting. As many times as I’ve given this advice to people in the past, I certainly benefited from it yesterday.